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According to my first post on TBlog about 11 "Don't-Tell-the-Wife " Secrets All Men Keep.

Here is the article about the 'wife's secrets'. I'm not married yet, but i think it's true since i've heard some of those 'secrets' from my friends (who're married).

And i think it can be true for some of us girls/women who're having a relationship anyway.

11 "Don't-Tell-the-Husb and" Secrets All Women Keep

By Jeannie Kim © 2006 by Hearst Communications Inc.

We women are well aware that most of the time we're a profound mystery to men. And for the most part, we like it that way. But the thought has occurred to just about every woman: Would it really be so bad if he knew about me? Wouldn't it help him understand me better? And more importantly, Wouldn't he annoy me less if he knew what I really wanted?

Read on for 11 near-universal secrets of womankind. Some may shock you, others may be things you've suspected for a long time (but never had the nerve to ask about). But know this: the woman in your life? She's hiding more secrets than these, including a few you'd never imagine. Lucky you—you get to spend a lifetime learning them all.

1. Everything we buy for ourselves—shoes, a skirt, even just stuff from the drugstore—really costs 20 percent more than we tell you it did.

2. We actually think about sex—with you!—a lot. Sometimes we think about it all day long. It's just that by the end of the day we're too damn tired to do anything about it. Now, if you could only catch us at lunchtime…

3. We're just as nervous about commitment as you are.

4. We may be modern and independent, but we still want you to be "the man."   At the end of the day, being in his strong arms is definitely a good feeling, no matter how independent we know we are

5. Our ex-boyfriends were not completely terrible in bed.  Just know that whatever toe-curling orgasms the other guy gave us, sex with you really is a million times better—because it's you, and you're the one we really want.

6. We're scared that we'll turn into our mothers.  We love our mothers, really. We admire them, we're grateful to them, we think they're the most amazing women on the planet. We just don't want to be them. That's why one of the worst insults you can hurl at a woman is, "You're acting just like your mother."

7. We want you to be jealous—but just a little bit.

8. Yes, we fantasize about hot celebrity guys, but that doesn't mean we want you to be them.

9. We tell our girlfriends more than we admit to you (but less than you fear).

10. We really do notice and appreciate all the chores you do.  Why don't we say so often enough? Because we can't get over all the things you don't do.

11. We love you with all our hearts, but we still get wistful about the fact that we'll never feel that falling-in-love sizzle and spark again.  Most women are love addicts. And while we appreciate the depth and richness of long-time love, there is simply nothing like the giddy, fluttery, crazy feeling we get (or rather, used to get) with a brand-new guy.  But in the end, what we get instead—you, and a lifetime of true devotion—is more than worth the price.

Have a nice weekend!